You know the type: High heels, fake tan, tight dress, bangles, earrings and necklaces aplenty. Bright red lipstick, thick mascara and orange blusher enhancing her natural beauty. Curves wiggling as she struts by, the smell of peach scented perfume dazzling you in her wake, you wonder how on earth you can break through that seemingly impenetrable wall she has around her.

It just makes no sense for her to take all that trouble (at least 1-2 hours) dressing up, just to sit around and tell all men to go away. Contrary to what her outward behavior may suggest, she IS looking for a mate; but she, aware of her extreme beauty, knows that she is capable of getting the very best , the tribal leader. She therefore develops automatic behaviors over time, to weed out the constant barrage of low status males who, fuelled by alcohol, pluck up their courage and ask her, “What’s your name?” , “Come here often?” While an average or pretty girl might be initially responsive to your opener, and if you come indirect they will not suspect you are trying to ‘get’ anything, because they simply haven’t been approached that many times. A woman of extreme beauty, however, has probably been approached hundreds if not thousands of times in her life, and whatever you say, EVEN if it is completely indirect, will be seen as a sign of interest and taking value. Basically, unless you can quickly do something to change that perception, your approach alone will convey too much initial interest and thus lump you with the hordes of low status males who approach her day after day.

A tribal leader would typically not care if he got her or not, since he is already surrounded by beautiful women. Another one would be nice, but he doesn’t really need it. But if you’re a beginner, and you don’t have any women, you can ‘pretend’ that you do, and that is good enough. There are two main techniques/strategies to overcome this:

1. Approach the group with girl(s) on your arm

Engage a group of average to pretty girls, and ‘use’ these to convey both tribal leader characteristics (already has women) as well as disinterest (you already have women, so don’t need her – you’re just being sociable).

2. Insult her or Disqualify yourself immediately

Usually a very beautiful woman’s response is automatic, fine tuned over years of boredom at low status males and their low status ways. You only have a couple of seconds to show that you are different – you don’t seek rapport with her, or her approval. In fact, you don’t care what she thinks, so much so that you casually state, “I don’t think it’s gonna work out between us,” or “I like your tan, it’s amazing what a can of spray can do these days.” Be prepared for a bitchy response back – you must pass this test by not reacting to it and keeping your own frame/not backing down by retracting or apologising for what you said. From then on you can run your opener. Be prepared throughout to continue showing disinterest when it seems like you are losing her.

Alternatively, for a beginner, it might be best to get practise at more friendly girls (there are many very pretty girls who are not extremely beautiful) before moving on to the more challenging tests and potholes a woman of extreme beauty will throw at you.

Love,
James